Man's appearance is not the most important thing. There are worse flows.
The biggest difference between men and women is what comes to mind when the word 'Facial' is used
Mom: If a boy touches your boobs say "don't" and if he touches your pussy say "stop"? Girl: But mom, he touched both so I said "don't stop".
Relationships are a lot like algebra. Have you ever looked at your X and wondered Y?